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So What Did You Think Of Jason From Last Season’s Bachelor & Molly Mesnick’s Wedding? Who Was On The Guest List? Do You Wonder If Melissa Rycroft Watched As The Events Unfolded? Watch The Full Wedding Video Here.

March 09, 2010 By: Lynn Category: Love, Marriage, My Views

So what did you think of Jason from last season’s bachelor and Molly Mesnick’s wedding?  Who was on the guest list?  Do you wonder if Melissa Rycroft watched as the events unfolded? Watch Jason And Molly’s Wedding Video Here. 

Well, tonight was Jason & Molly Mesnick’s Wedding aired tonight on ABC.  In a strange weather event the two tied the knot tonight.  The original date that they married was February 27, 2010 and was aired tonight to let the world know that they were indeed ready to be one.


Jason was the Bachelor last season and in a crazy change of events he originally picked Melissa Rycroft, who he proposed to and then not to long later retracted his feelings on national television.  He then asked Molly Malany to take him back after dumping her and choosing Melissa.

Now let’s get to the nitty gritty……..who made the guest list?  There were ex’s of ex’s and the strangest couples.  Did you know that Deanna Pappas who picked Jesse Csincsak in her season of the bachelorette, after breaking up with him, then went back and asked Jason Mesnick to take her back?  She was at the wedding with Stephan Stagliano the twin brother of Micheal,  who was a contestant cast off by Jillian Harris last season.  Woo, she gets around.

The reason Jake and Vienna couldn’t go was because they were secluded at this point, because the Bachelor On The Wings Of Love was still airing.

Jillian Harris and Ed Swiderski were in attendance and discussed there exciting plans to tie the knot next year perhaps.

Charlie O’Connell and Sarah Brice were there and they are talking about a house in the future.  They are not engaged, just happily living life after a year breakup.

Ryan and Trista Sutter, a very happy couple, with two children Max 2, and Lacey 1, make them complete. 

Others in Attendance were  Kiptyn Locke, Jesse Csincsak and Natalie Getz, Stephanie Hogan and Nikki Kaapke.

They had their rings custom made by Niel Wayne, wedding planner was Jo Cartin, Invitations were made by Jennifer from Tiny Pine Press, Event designer was Eden Rodriguez, gift registry was done at Macy’s.  Molly’s gown was purchased at Monique Lhuillier, fashion designer, Jason’s Suit was purchased by Kenneth Cole.  Hair and Makeup were done by Ken Pavis and Mally Roncal.  Jason Castro from American Idol was there to provide music for Molly to walk down the isle singing, “Somewhere Over The Rainbow,”and as the percession descended from the crowd he sang, “That’s What I Am Here For.”  There first dance was a gift from the Bachelor Show, by Molly’s favorite artist,Gavin Degraw singing, “Follow Through.”

If you were wondering where Ty was, Jason and Ty’s mother discussed not putting him on National Television anymore, so that he could grow up as a normal child.  So there was no footage of Ty during this memorable time.  But he was there and I’m sure happy to have a new step mom.

So in a beautifully constructed wedding the rain held off for a short time only to pour once Jason and Molly were saying there personal wedding vows.  Where was the wedding planner with umbrella’s at this moment?  They had umbrella’s for all the guest and not the bridal party themselves. 

Needless to say this was a beautiful television event.  And though I did not like the situation between the split of Jason and Melissa, you can tell that all parties involved are very happy.

What did you think of the wedding?  Were you happy with the outcome?  Is there anything you would have changed?

What Did I Marry…My Husband Didn’t Even Wish Me Happy Valentine’s!

February 15, 2010 By: Lynn Category: Feelings, Love, Marriage, My Daughter, My Husband

What did I marry…..my husband didn’t even wish me a Happy Valentine’s!!  Coming home from work today I was feeling like crap (because I have strep throat) but on the up side of things it’s Valentines.  My husband was sleeping, because he works nights and well this seems to be my new life……he eats, sleeps and goes to work!  Not a routine that I am a huge fan of but he is finally, after looking for work a very long time, is helping pay the bills.

My daughter and I came in the house, went in the cabinet and brought out his Valentine’s present that we bought him and luckily kept it a secret for three weeks.  Upon my husband coming out of the bedroom, my daughter was so excited to show his Valentine’s present, he thanked her and then went on to open the chocolates and card.  That was it ladies!!  No seriously, that was it.  He came to the coach went on the computer and that was it!!

I am so hurt and upset.  He too has a blog and he did an article wishing all of his followers a Happy Valentine’s, and yet he didn’t even wish his wife and daughter a Happy Valentines.

Anyway, whenever I think that he could be a worse person…..he seems to always shock me by being that person!

I hope that you and your loved ones had a superb day and evening….I hope that you got spoiled and I hope that no matter what, you marry someone that gives a shit about you!!

Sexting, How Is That Even Cool?

February 09, 2010 By: Lynn Category: Ashamed, Controversial, Discipline, Family, Frustrated, Health, Love, Marriage, Our Children, Parenting, Relationships, Sex

So it is a rampant new habit that young people, mostly young women are doing called sexting, which is taking a picture of themselves nude and sending it around from their cell phone to young gentlemen (I use that word loosely) to try to coerce the young men into liking her with the possibility of having oral or sexual intercourse.  My question is sexting, really, how is that even cool?

Traditionally, our age range, would have engaged in phone sex which is talking smut on the phone, well we thought that this concept was awkward and strange, but sending nude pictures around for the world to see, seems to me a bit brazen.  Really once she presses send, it is a free for all, you don’t know who is going to have access to that picture.

My next question is why do all these young people need access to all of this technology?  Why do young people need cell phones?  When I was younger I didn’t have a cell phone and my parents knew where I was every waking minute.  In my generation parents spoke to one another, where there was a role model around to watch what we were in to and what we were doing.  It would be easy for me to verbally bash these parents that are not instilling any morals or self restraint.  But I won’t go there right now.  Young boys are experimental, they are creatures with wondering minds. 


So then what is going on with our girls?  When did sexting become cool?  Where are these girls at in their mind, to be able to get naked for a BOY that they don’t even know?  Who is taking these pictures of them?

Why don’t any of these girls have any self confidence?  Because in my mind any young woman that is taking a nude picture of themselves to gain respect and attention of a hormonal boy, is ridiculous.

Now it’s the parents turn… WHERE ARE YOU?  Why aren’t you monitoring the actions of your children?  Your sons are soliciting young girls and your daughter is becoming a prostitute in training.  All because they are missing and craving, your attention!  So, WHERE ARE YOU?  Too busy, with work and everything else that is going on with your life.  Well, your daughter is about to send a nude picture to the phone world, and I am sure that every boy in the school is going to see it.  Is that want you want for them.   Is that what you envisioned for them when they grew up.  But whatever right, you bought them everything they need to keep their impressionable minds busy.  Have you talked to them about safe sex yet?  Oh, wait, your child isn’t sexually active.  Well, let me give you a rude awakening, young people are starting to have sex at the age of 12.  A handful are sexually active children are starting to have sex at the age of 9.  THAT IS CRAZY!  But hey you can get a hold of them because you bought them a cell phone.  Right?

We the parents are the root of the problem.  Young people are blaming home life, they have no respect for their parents because they are not actively involved in their children’s lives, divorces are giving them the excuse that if their parents don’t have respect for love and a marriage then why should they have respect for any woman.  In their eyes a woman is an object, a disposable object.

“Take heed and beware of covetousness, for a man’s life consists not in the abundance of things that he possess’.”  Luke 12:15-16

Meaning, it is not what you are buying your children that should matter in your life it should be the time you’re putting in.  It is our responsibility to mold our children not with Wii games, but with love and morals.  It is our avocation to protect them, to provide them with standards and principle’s which do not come naturally to them.

So when it becomes your time to buy your young person a cell phone, remember the dangers that you could be putting them in. 

Do you know someone that participates in sexting?  What do you think of the ever growing subject?  Do you think that this is a dangerous way to show love?  Sexting, how is that even cool?

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