If you have children then I am sure that you have probably experienced this situation at one time or another; when is a good time for parents to have sex when you have children in the next room?
My husband and I have two small children, our daughter is six and our little fellow is 11 months. My hubby works nights and for the most part sleeps all day, everyday. Every now and then when he is awake in the daytime hours, we feel as though it would be nice to get it on have a quick love making session. Now with two children, this has to be a thoughtout process and done absolutely quickly, before they fight, he starts crying, or before our daughter thinks that we’ve been, ”talking to long,” and opens the door to find out, what is none of her business.
So, on the odd occasion we will ask our daughter if she can be a big girl, and babysit her brother to give her daddy and I fifteen minutes to get it on talk privately, without any interruptions. So, on that note we go in the bedroom, and do you think that I/we can concentrate? OF COURSE NOT. She is in the other room throwing a ball at his head playing catch, and not even five minutes in, our son is bored and gets up to play with the bedroom door handle and is banging on the door, screaming “momma”. Grrr.
Let’s just say that on a number of occasions my husband is not very fulfilled by the end of our, “conversation.” Does this ever happen to you? Have you ever been in the middle of having sex with your significant other and have to stop because of the children? When is a good time to have sex when you have children and both work opposite shifts?